A note to any healthcare provider, These are just a handful of quotes directly from families, loved ones and caregivers that I’ve worked with over the years. These quotes, or some similar version of them, are what I constantly hear before and after their person dies. It is our responsibility to know our patients and families goals, wishes, values. It is our duty to know and understand what matters most to them. It is also our duty to be honest (yes, even when it’s hard) and help guide them based